Discipleship


Contents
Prayer- What is Missing? Persistence...Do Not Lose Heart 
Lessons from Samaria - A Seat at the Well
Drama – A Lesson from the Book of Esther



Prayer - What is Missing?
Persistence 

Opening Prayer

I open my heart Holy Spirit to teach me new perspectives that produce boldness and effectiveness in my prayer life.

 Do Not Lose Heart

 References: Luke 18:1-8, Acts 12:3, 5-7, Matthew 6:8b

Luke’s comment that men should always pray and not lose heart refers to the Parable of the Persistent Widow. Jesus taught the disciples to be persistent in their petitions to God. It does not matter when we pray. Just be we are unwavering in worship, praise, and petitions.  

An example of this prayer principle occurred in Acts Chapter 12. When Herod threw Peter into prison to please the Jewish leaders, the disciples prayed to God for Peter’s release. An angel released his chains. Peter walked past the guards and out the prison doors to freedom.

When the scripture says speedily, it does not always mean according to our timetable. Nevertheless, each answered prayer fits into the Father’s timetable for blessing, deliverance, justice, and provision.

Timetable – a schedule showing a planned order or sequence

 References: Psalms 139:1-10, John 14:13-14

We often wonder if God knows that we exist during a challenging situation. Yet, the Lord is everywhere and knows all about us from birth to death. This truth gives us hope and confidence that our prayers are heard and will be answered because He loves us.  

 Reference:  Psalms 130

Prayer is difficult when we do not know the period between asking and receiving a request. Our world has changed from planting a seed and watching it grow culture to going to the store and paying for a product culture. If we purchase a product, payment is expected immediately. When we consider the waiting process for an answer to our prayer, we must acknowledge God’s timetable and His authority over our lives.

Hindrances to Praying

References: Matthew 6:9-15, Luke 11:1-4, John 3:16-17, Romans 8:34-35, 37-39; Ephesians 2:4-9, I John 3:1a

Hindrances to praying to the Lord might include:

·       Lack of knowledge - To help with your prayer life, select prayer resources, such as books, CDs, and DVDs. The disciples had this issue, as well. They asked Jesus to teach them how to pray. He gave them the model prayer called the Our Father prayer. Also, we can pray the scriptures, such as repeating the Psalms as a prayer to the Lord.

·       Impatient - Prayer is not an automated process. For example, we do not push a prayer button, and our request is disbursed from a prayer vending machine every time we pray. The Lord's timetable entails our past, present, and future events.

·       Lack of faith - If we are honest, there are occasions when we hesitate to pray because we do not want to hear: “My grace is sufficient for you.” Therefore, we ask the Lord for help, but not in faith.

·       Unapproachable God - When we compare God’s omnipotence with our sinful lives, fearing Him can grip our hearts and cause us not to pray. However, our fears cannot separate us from His love. His love for us sent Jesus to the cross for our sins. He loves us and calls us “His” children.

Unthinkable or unbelievable – not capable of being grasped by the mind, being contrary to what is reasonable, desirable, or probable, being out to the question: Incredulous

Incredulous – unwilling to admit or accept what is offered as true; credulous is ready to believe, especially on slight or uncertain evidence: Unfamiliar

Unfamiliar – not well acquainted or not well known, strange

 Jesus’ sacrifice covered our sins so we could approach the Father without fear, timidity, or doubt. He is on the throne, waiting to hold out His scepter of acceptance to hear our request.

Are you confident that the blood of Jesus gives you access to the heavenly throne room through prayer? Why or why not?

Misplaced Expectations

References: Numbers 22:5-7, 13; Numbers 23:18-21, I Samuel 4:1-5, 10-11

We can lose heart because of misplaced expectations regarding the outcome of our prayer. People walk away from the Lord when He does not meet their terms and conditions, including their stipulations and timetable. Mistakenly, people assume the Lord is obligated to give them an outcome that pleases them.

Trust in things

For example, Israel fought against the Philistines at Ebenezer and Aphek. The priests believed the Ark of the Covenant would protect them from harm. However, the presence of the Lord was not in the Ark. The Israelis lost the battle due to misplaced expectations. The Philistines killed over thirty thousand Israelites and captured the Ark of the Covenant.

We must examine our faith, attitudes, behaviors, and lifestyle to ensure our expectations of the Lord are not grounded in false assumptions. Instead, we create false beliefs, failing to consider the consequences of sins on our prayer's outcome.

Misplaced – to put in a wrong or inappropriate place

 

Expectation – to expect something:  Expect - to consider bound in duty or obligated

 Trust in People

Trusting in the abilities of others can cause misplaced expectations. For example, Balak, the king of Moab, charged Balaam, a diviner, to curse Israel when they returned from Egypt. However, he misunderstood the extent of Balaam’s power. As a result, the Lord commanded Balaam to bless Israel, which he did much to Balak’s dismay.

Beware of Balak’s deception. He thought the power to curse or bless belonged to Balaam. That is, using someone to entice the Lord to give us what we want. We must not practice divination for our needs, wants, or desires, expecting too much from the prayers of others.

How to Come Before the Lord

References:  Psalms 100; Hebrews 4:16; Luke 18:10-14, Luke 18:17; Proverbs 11:2; Hebrews 4:16; Esther 8:4,  Philippians 4:4-7

Prayer is the door that we walk through to receive grace and mercy from the Lord. Grace and mercy give us the power to endure situations without fearful anticipation.

Receive – Acquire; to come in possession of; find

A.   Worship - We should create a distraction-free zone to worship in prayer.

Worship – An act of showing reverence or honor; lavish admiration

    A.          B.  Confident – We are the heavenly Father’s children. He loves us and desires the best for us. Therefore, how we see ourselves in our natural family can be how we will see ourselves in our spiritual family. List your thoughts on how you see yourself in God’s eyes.

Confident – having or showing assurance and self-reliance

 C.  Positive Expectations – We praise and worship the Lord for the victory and testimony, knowing by faith we have received our petition.

Expectation – to expect something:  Expect - to consider bound in duty or obligated

D. Humility - We do not come before the Lord in pride based on our religious performance.

Humility – free from pride or arrogant; state of being Humble 

Humble – not assertive

Dealing with Fear

References:  John 14:25-26, Philippians 4:4-7

Dealing with the fear of praying is similar to facing a door to the unknown (see earlier discussions). The enemy sows fear in our thoughts to keep us from spiritual communication with the Lord. When fear is in our hearts, we come before the Lord in anxiety. The prayer journey must begin toward the Father’s throne despite our apprehension. He is the only one that can help our situation.  

Anxiety – apprehension, uneasiness, or nervousness usually over an impending or anticipated ill 

Prayer is about Kingdom Things

References: Matthew 6:31-34, Isaiah 61:1-2a, Colossians 1:9

Kingdom things are spiritual things such as grace, mercy, the fruit of the Spirit, deliverance, and healing (physical, spirit). Jesus said to seek the kingdom of God and His righteousness first before anything else. Therefore, we should continually pray for kingdom things. He knows if we are asking to receive earthly things or because we love Him and are seeking to do His will. Unfortunately, we tend to be persistent in prayer when our basic needs and well-being are in jeopardy. 

Closing

References:  Luke 11:5-13, Luke 18:17, Romans 8:26-27

Jesus did not leave His followers on earth without a mentor. His name is Holy Spirit. He is always with us and knows how to pray for us. He merges what is in our hearts harmoniously with the will of the Father. 

Harmonious – having all parts agreeable, interweaving different accounts into a single narrative 

Our prayers should include spiritual issues, such as unforgiveness, emotional hurts, and pride. Here are some questions for you to answer.

 1.     How has society (past and present) affected your prayer life?

a.      Apathy - lack of feeling or emotion,  lack of interest or concern, indifferent (especially for the things of God)

b.     Complacency - self-satisfaction, especially when accompanied by unawareness of actual dangers for deficiencies (as in not understanding the danger of a slack prayer life)

c.      Feisty - touchy and quarrelsome (bad attitude toward others with the expectation of God’s forgiveness and grace without any consequences)

2.     Are worldly things the focal point of your prayer expectations?

a.      Expectations - something expected; basis for expecting; assurance (praying for material things to consume on oneself)

3.     What is your faith position in prayer: confidence and bold or fear and timid? Do you come before the Lord by faith as a:

a.      Worshiper

b.     Little child

c.      Trespasser

d.     Captive (to carnal things)

4.     Are you persistent in prayer, communicating with the Lord throughout the day?

a.      Warrior – citizen-soldier of the kingdom of God

5.     Do you intercede for others when you pray?

a.      Ambassador (looking out for the interest of others)

b.     Watcher or sentry to protect spiritual assets (people)


Closing Prayer

References: Psalms 100:4, Hebrews 4:16

“Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, And into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name.”

Father, settle it in our spirit that we have an open door to You for persistence through prayer. Through the door of prayer are love, wisdom, peace, forgiveness, and self-control. You are waiting for us to come into Your presence to receive grace and help in our time of need.


Lessons from Samaria

A Seat at the Well

There is a well located on the West Bank of Israel where Jacob gave to the sons of Joseph. This region was called Samaria. There was a city of the same name in Old Testament times. In this region, Jesus visited the town of Sychar. He had several teachable moments with the disciples during this visit.

Jesus walked with His disciples on their way back to Galilee and went through Samaria. When they came to the outskirts of Sychar, He sat down by the well dug by Jacob long ago. While He rested by the well, the disciples went into the city to purchase food. When they returned, Jesus was talking to a Samaritan woman. He reveals many things about the kingdom during this encounter. 

 Lesson 1

vv. 5, 34
Jesus Knows Who the Father Wants in His Kingdom

Jesus gave us an example of who the Father wants in His kingdom. He wants everyone, including adulterers, women, and Gentiles. Jesus went to Samaria intentionally. According to God’s promise to Abraham, Samaria is Israeli territory by covenant. It is the region given to Joseph’s sons, Ephraim and Manasseh. After conquering this territory, the Assyrians moved most of the people to the various areas of their empire. Therefore, during Jesus’ time, the Samaritans were a mixed race who desired to embrace the God of Israel. However, many of the people served idol gods.

Lesson 2

vv. 9, 10, 15, 16-18, 27    
Jesus Talks to Women

The Israeli custom was to have no or minimal contact with Gentiles, women, and sinners during Jesus’ time. The disciples were surprised that Jesus was talking to a woman. I’m sure this behavior made the disciples uncomfortable and left them speechless. Yet, Jesus continued His conversation with her in public. He showed no hostility toward her or apprehension because the disciples were present. Instead, He patiently answered her questions and dove deep into her brokenness. The Jewish Messiah showed the love and acceptance of the Father for all people groups.

Lesson 3

vv. 6, 9, 7, 10, 11, 27
Jesus Recognizes Rejection

Knowing the woman of Sychar’s rejections, Jesus came into her territory and personal space at the well. The first question she asked was why He was talking to a Samaritan. She knew the Jews had no dealings with her people. Nevertheless, the woman felt comfortable talking to Jesus simply because He asked her for a drink of water. Imagine how powerful this was to her.

Firstly, Jesus sat at a well where the Gentiles came to drink. Secondly, Jesus was willing to drink from a utensil used by an outcast. Finally, He was talking to her and not at her. She perceived that Jesus was different from other Jewish people. She called Him a prophet. No one holds a lengthy, personal conversation with someone who condemns and rejects them. She felt His uniqueness and became inquisitive.

Lesson 4

vv. 17-20
Desire to Know the Truth

The woman of Sychar desired to know the truth and live truthfully. Therefore, she answered Jesus honestly when asked about her husband. She had no husband. To her surprise, Jesus confirmed her answer and went deep into her life with men. He told her about the five past husbands and the sixth she was committing adultery.

Once the woman realized Jesus knew all truth, she began to ask other questions. His answers provided clarification and set her on the path to the reality of salvation through the Messiah.


Lesson 5
vv. 25, 28-30, 39, 41-42
Jesus and the Kingdom

At the well, Jesus spoke of the kingdom. The woman looked for the Messiah who would reveal all truth. She knew Jesus was the Messiah after their conversation. This encounter is one of the few recorded scriptures where Jesus confessed to an individual that He is the Messiah.

The woman testified to the people in the city that Jesus was the Messiah. So they came to the well to hear Him for themselves. This event was an incredible sight — a Jewish rabbi associating with Samaritans in their territory. After hearing Him teach and preach, many believed He was the Messiah. So they came to the well based on the testimony of an outcasted woman.

Therefore, if we tell one person the good news of salvation through Jesus, people will come to the Lord and tell others the good news of the kingdom.

Lesson 6

vv. 10, 13b-14, 106, 116

Jesus Gives Living Water, the Gift of God, Our Inner Fountain

The conversation with the woman leads Jesus to introduce a special Gift of God that only He can give her. He emphasized that she could ask for Living Water. Do we realize how much the Lord desires to provide us with living water? We only need to ask Him.

The living water comes to us through Holy Spirit. He dwells in us and fills us with the essence of life as God has it. The living water is the nutrition our reborn spirit requires to live in this world. It produces an existence for us now and into eternity. However, we must ask Jesus for living water.

Lesson 7

vv. 20, 22-24   
What Are You Worshipping

The woman asked for clarification on a dispute between the Jews and Samaritans. The disagreement was about where the Samaritans should worship the God of Israel. Jesus replied that the Samaritans did not know what they worshipped, even though they believed Jacob was their ancestral father.

Jesus stated that the Jews knew what they worshipped. Salvation comes from the Jewish lineage of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Also, Moses and the prophets documented their worship by commandment from God Almighty. Not so with the Samaritans. Men created false gods for them to worship.

Samaria was one of two regions in the Kingdom of Israel that the Lord divided because of Solomon’s sin. So King Jeroboam did not seek the Lord on how they should worship. He feared the people would want to reunite with the tribes of Judah and Benjamin in Jerusalem at the feasts. Therefore, he made two idols for the people to worship—one in Bethel and the other in Dan (1 King12:26-33).

This lesson shows how generations of people can be persuaded into false worship by one wrong decision from someone in authority. The good news is not everyone worshipped the false gods in the Samaritan region. For example, Elijah, the prophet, was from Gilead, located in the Samaria region (1 King 19:14, 18).

We must know “what and who” we worship in this day and time. God is Spirit. He is not bound by any territory. Therefore, our worship must be in spirit and truth.

Lesson 8

vv. 34-38, 42
                                                 Fields Ready to Harvest

Jesus revealed to the disciples the spiritual harvest is everywhere, even outside their traditional territory. Therefore, He shared the kingdom of God with the Samaritans for two days. No doubt, His actions seemed inconsistent to the disciples. After all, Jesus said that the gospel must be preached to the Jews first.

 Also, Jesus gave a broader perspective of the mission field for the kingdom of God. He explained it takes fewer people to sow seeds than to harvest the crop. That is why a farmer will hire reapers to help with the harvest. Jesus said he who reaps for the kingdom receives wages and gathers fruit for eternal life. Therefore, we are paid eternal dollars for the harvest we bring to the Lord.

 While looking at the people of Sychar coming to see and hear Him, Jesus told the disciples to look at their harvest. He was sending them to reap a harvest in a field where they had not sown seeds. In other words, Jesus said to the disciple, “Look, those are the souls you are to harvest for the kingdom of God. The Samaritans can come into the kingdom as well.”

Jesus let the Samaritans know that the Messiah accepted them. He stayed with them two days before continuing on His journey to Galilee.

Like the disciples, the souls around us are ready to be harvested for the kingdom of God.


Drama – A Lesson from the Book of Esther

Be Careful of the Drama You Start

The book of Esther has an example of why people should not create drama. Webster’s dictionary defines drama as a state, situation, or series of events involving an interesting or intense conflict of forces. Please read the Book of Esther for context. This warning begins in Chapter 3 of Esther. 

A man, Haman, has been promoted by King Ahasuerus to a high position in the ancient Medo-Persian Empire (539-331 B.C.).  The king had commanded his servants to bow down to Haman.  However, Mordecai, an Israelite, refused to show reverence to him.  He knew Haman did not like his people.

When the servants of the king saw Mordecai refuse to bow before Haman, they plotted to tell Haman to see what would happen to him. Two things the servants knew: 1) Mordecai was Israelite and 2) there is always a penalty for disobeying the king’s decree.  They decided to create drama.

The servants told Haman about Mordecai’s lack of respect to see what he would do.  I’m sure they expected Mordecai to be hanged or thrown to the lions. However, Haman was a ruthless and vindictive man.  Instead of pouring out his wrath only on Mordecai, he convinced King Ahasuerus to eradicate all the Israelites in the empire. Also, Haman built gallows to hang Mordecai. One can only speculate whether the servants, knowing Mordecai was an Israelite, knew of historical events when God saved the Israelites from certain death. In their recent history, the God of the Israelites had protected Daniel from being eaten by lions and protected ShadrachMeshach, and Abed-nego from being burned in a fiery furnace.

This drama unfolds on two fronts for us to consider: the consequences of Mordecai’s action and the consequences of the servants’ action.

Consequences of the Mordecai’s Action
Mordecai had no issue with bowing before the authorities of Persia. One could conclude that he showed reverence to the king and his officials on a daily. To Mordecai, he was not bowing to an official but an enemy, Haman. The people were not being asked to proclaim Haman as their god. Mordecai’s disrespect for Haman caused him to lose sight of the real issue; obeying the king’s command. His actions caused the wrath of his enemy upon all Israelites in the empire.

Because we believe in Jesus and obey the Holy Scriptures, we live by the Biblical command to obey authorities that we may live a quiet and peaceable life (1 Timothy 2:1-3).  We should consider the consequences of creating drama by pursuing a religious act of irreverence against an authority. I’m sure Mordecai was willing to take the vengeance imposed upon him by Haman.  However, he did not know that his action would put his entire people group, including Hadassah (Esther), his niece, in harm’s way. It is right to refuse to worship man instead of our God. However, our refusal to obey the law of the land or show reverence to an authority that does not interfere with our worship of the Lord should be well prayed out.

Consequences of the Servants’ Action
The scriptures do not tell us the ethnicity of the servants.  However, many conquered people groups worked for the King of Persia, including the Israelites. The servants’ drama between Haman and Mordecai did not unfold as planned. They expected Mordecai and only him to be disciplined by Haman.  Unfortunately, when told of Mordecai’s action, Haman’s revenge was twofold: 1) kill Mordecai and 2) eradicate the Israelites from the empire. I’m sure the servants never expected Haman to react so harshly. Now they had the blood of a people group on their hands and conscience. Some of these people were their neighbors, possible family members by marriage, close friends who were Israelites, and Israelite coworkers. They lived for a year around people who would die because of the drama they created in the empire.

When we embrace salvation through Jesus, we must be diligent not to go along with the evil plots of the people around us.  Proverbs 1:10 (emphasis added) states, “If sinners entice you [to do evil], do not consent.” The consequences of being involved in drama instigated by a person, a people group, or a gang of people have repercussions far beyond our control.  Our family, friends, and others will be affected by the drama set in motion.


Research and Study

1.     The relationship between the Israelites and Haman’s ancestors
2.     The difference between the religious stance taken by Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-nego and the position taken by Mordecai
3.     Jesus' and other New Testament writers' teachings about our behavior toward governmental authorities
4.     God’s commandment spoken by Jeremiah for the Israelites to settle in Babylon to avoid the destruction of Jerusalem
5.     Scriptures in Proverbs on the behavior of wicked/unrighteous people